My dungeon/playspace is a converted single-family house so we have no shared walls and lots of privacy. Wood floors, high ceilings, mood lighting, erotic artwork, thick wool rugs, and a large velvet sectional set the tone of the entry space. Next I have a well-stocked massage set up: heated table, a wide variety of oils/lotions, custom mood lighting and an excellent sound system. The walls are lined with display shelves for my toy collection. See anything that catches your eye?
The adjacent kink space features a custom-built St. Andrew’s Cross, sex chaise, and suspension tripod.
A large brass bondage bed dominates the nearby bedroom, complete with 12″ memory foam mattress for more intense play.
The kitchen can supply snacks to fuel longer sessions, and the bathroom/shower will facilitate easy clean up afterwards. Alameda and I-25 are useful, nearby cross streets, and the exact address can be sent once you’ve completed your screening.
A detailed description of equipment can be found here.
Yes. I take my safety extremely seriously and I will need to feel comfortable with you before we meet. If you would like to set up an appointment with me please choose ONE of the three screening options that best fits you:
- provider references
- employment verification (a well-established LinkedIn account or other evidence of employment)
- a copy of your ID
I also take your privacy extremely seriously, and I will delete all of your information as soon as we’ve completed our first session. Once you’ve been screened, all future appointments are easy to set up.
Yes! I have a few friends who are also independent providers. I love group dynamics and I am happy to invite them to join us. However, I will need to have a one-on-one session with you before scheduling anything more interesting:- )
I find that men are socialized to feel that they must “perform” during a sexual encounter, and many feel that they are responsible for their partner’s experience and pleasure. I’ve commonly seen this expectation at the root of various issues from sexual anxiety to erectile dysfunction to premature ejaculation. I’d like to invite you to relax, allow me take the lead, and let the experience overwhelm your senses. I’m an assertive woman and and natural giver, and I get a great deal of pleasure and arousal from creating these experiences for you. And of course, you can rely on me to ensure that my own needs are met as well.
For more specific requests for an activity you want to do together, please just ask me a direct question via email. I tend to be very frank about these things, as its important to avoid misunderstandings.
Yes! My incall space has a sparkling clean octopus-themed bathroom for all of your pre and post session hygiene needs.
I do schedule a small number of outcall appointments. However, I still recommend meeting at my playspace for our first session, because I have all of my massage supplies and sex toys set up and ready for you. I’m willing to travel nearly anywhere for the right person, and a reasonable travel fee can be discussed when you contact me.
Yes, I am happy to provide a reference if you’d like to see another provider. I’m not a jealous person, and I understand that some people crave variety. I’m even willing to provide referrals to any of my provider friends if you’d like to ensure that your next experience is as professional, inspired, and discrete as I am.
That said, I will need you to contact me explicitly if you’d like a reference. I will not respond to random people emailing/texting me and asking me for information about you unless I’ve heard from you that its okay to discuss it.
Arya and I have many differences, the biggest of which is that her name is pronounced “Ar-eee-ah” and mine is Ariah “Ah-rye-ah“. But seriously, please stop calling me Arya.
Yes, I love them! Please email or text me for a current list of most desired sex toys and lingerie. If time doesn’t allow for that, feel free to grab me a gift card from:
Or bring along some toys that inspire you to donate to my collection:- )
My only requirement is basic hygiene, and I have a well-stocked full bathroom for you to utilize if you’re not able to shower before you arrive. Other than that, I recommend reflecting on your deepest, most suppressed desires. What porn do you like to watch? What do you secretly fantasize about? What fantasies feel too taboo to ever try in real life? Send me an email with some ideas and we can brainstorm together. I love giving people new experiences, especially ones that break social norms and defy enculturation.
Generally, no. I have had a lot of good experiences meeting thoughtful, kind people through this work, and generally find that most people communicate clearly about their schedule and arrive as planned for their appointment. I might request a deposit if you’ve had to cancel or reschedule a previous appointment, or if your request requires me to purchase supplies, if the session requires me to travel, or if the session is especially lengthy and takes a lot of planning.
Yep! My photos range from a couple of weeks to a couple of years old, but my natural athletic figure has remained consistent. I’ve been growing out my mullet and only my last 2 photo shoots show my current hair style (shoulder-length hair). You’ll notice that I don’t shave any of my body hair, a modern practice that befuddles me in its popularity. If you are looking for a natural style, you’ve come to the right place! I also have small breasts (A cup), so keep that in mind if you are a breast-appreciator. Working out is my favorite coping mechanism for everyday life stresses, and I aspire to excellent muscle definition.
I know that life is full of things we don’t plan for, so if you must change your confirmed appointment all I ask is that you pay a cancellation fee of $50/hr. To me, this is a way for you to respect the time and intention I’ve put into our plans.
Cancellation Rates (based on session time).
1 hour: 50 | 1.5 hours: 75 | 2 hours: 100
3 hours: 150 | 4 hours: 200 | 5 Hours: 250
6 hours: 300 | Overnight: 600
I take my commitments extremely seriously and can count on one hand the number of times I’ve had to cancel or reschedule a confirmed session. Should I need to reschedule, I will offer you an additional 30 minutes playtime, free of charge.
I will never choose to take a risk with my health and safety. For me, this means none of your body fluids on my mucus membranes. For those of you who slept through BIO 101, this means no kissing on the lips, no oral sex, no licking my inner nostrils, etc. Body fluids on skin-covered body parts are welcome! This means yes to kissing my neck, licking my shapely buttocks, or putting my hands just about anywhere. As with any other type of relationship, over a period of time it is possible to build more trust and openness if we have a strong connection.
Absolutely not. Please do not include a description of your physical appearance in your initial email, as I won’t be selecting clients based on these qualities. I find a wide variety of people potentially attractive…its just a matter of our chemistry. This is also true in my personal life: I’ve rarely dated the “conventionally attractive” types; I’m much more turned on by genuine kindness, sexual chemistry, and emotional connection. Please do inform me of any accessibility needs ahead of time so that I can accommodate you. My dungeon space is not wheelchair accessible (2 stairs to the porch entrance), but I am working to change this. Please inquire.
Yes! Cash is preferable, but I can accept credit cards as well. Paying with credit adds a 4% processing fee. Please let me know ahead of time if you plan to use credit so that I know to have my credit card reader with me. Cashapp is available only if you’re paying in advance for a session.
Nope. I don’t do any trades, specials or reduced rates under any circumstances. Stinginess is a turn-off: please don’t ask for freebies or discounts. However, once we’ve established our connection through several sessions, I’m happy to discuss tailoring session costs to fit your unique needs. Perhaps paying by month rather than by hour makes more sense, and allows for more flexibility if you intend to meet with me regularly? Perhaps you have a series of sessions in mind and would like a package-deal? Lets discuss.
Yes! All of the above. I’m bisexual and find all genders potentially attractive.
More is always better! I love being able to plan my day with you as my priority so that I can show up well rested, well fed, and well groomed. I can usually accommodate a request made 2-3 days in advance, and am happy to book up to 6 months out. That said, on rare occasions same-day appointments work out with perfect synchronicity. My absolute minimum notice for established clients is 2 hours and 4 hours for new clients. To schedule an appointment with less than 72 hours notice, please text rather than email: 720.445.6179 so that I be sure to see your request in time.
I enjoy meeting new people, and while some awkwardness might be inherent to first meetings, I find this easy to move through so that we can get to the good part. I’m a retired massage therapist, and I think this shows in how I conduct my sessions. After offering you some refreshments and the opportunity to use the bathroom, I’ll invite you to the massage table. A brief massage gives us both the opportunity to get undressed and comfortable with each other before venturing into the more taboo realms of sexuality & kinky play. For folks who don’t enjoy massage, I think a brief cuddle in bed can play a similar role: getting us comfortable with each other’s bodies in a non-sexual manner before beginning our intentional playtime.
Ariah.Fae@SafeOffice.com